How does one succeed in life?
10.06.2025 04:10
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
That's it for today.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
I dreamt my mother had died and I cried so much in my dream. What does it mean?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Lighter than normal WWDC expected without significant Apple Intelligence uprgrades - AppleInsider
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
MAHA kids’ health report misinforms about tonsillectomies and ear tubes - statnews.com
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Blood test detects multiple cancer types through cell-free DNA - Medical Xpress
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Democrat announces run against Ernst after her 'We're all going to die' comments - ABC News
What I need from you?
Procrastinates a lot.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Reality TV star’s son dead at 16: ‘Life is so cruel and unfair’ - AL.com
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Do not set goals—set systems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Making more friends is a goal.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Does not procrastinate.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Losing 20kg is a goal.